One in the Same....
Tuesday, April 22, 2008 Edit This 7 Comments »her abuser is pretty harsh.
she continues to take the criticism; the disses......
the negative comments are thrown at her daily (several times a day).
they take a toll on her and she is exhausted by them.
whenever she thinks she has enough courage to put an end to it, she doesn't because she knows no other way. its what she's used to.
everyday, she experiences someone who has no patience with her.
who is very unforgiving, who extends very little grace when she makes a mistake.
she is oppressed by her abuser and as a result, she is extremely insecure.
although she knows deep down inside she's beautiful and deserves much more, day after day, and week after week she continues to believe her abusers lies, she tolerates her abusers ways.
i encourage you to stand strong my sister. with God's help you can defeat your abuser. don't give up when the going gets rough, rather, get up each day, realize your worth, look in the mirror and face that abuser who is none other than you...
please pray for this woman as she begins her healing process. she is your sister, she is your friend, she is me.
7 What's on Your Write Mind?:
That people can be in situations like that is horrible.
Bad Bad Bad!
grrrrr
Now I am all worked up and not in a good way.
(little ha ha...)
I hope things get better for her.
Rock on!
Praying Sandy - love ya girl!!!!
(((HUGS)))
thanks rex i know things will get better she just has to be patient with herself. :)
thanks faraja i love to smile and i love to joke and make others feel good about themselves yet i deal with these issues daily... (deep sigh) i'll make it! :)
There's nothing worse than self inflicted abuse.....people will treat us and respect us as we treat and respect ourselves. Loving self comes when we grow to love God and realize that we are made in his image and that He loves us flaws and all!
Took me a while, but I've stop abusing myself and started loving myself...Thank God for his love, mercy, and grace........Peace & Blessings
Definitely in my prayers! The righteous will prevail!
Keep your chin up, Baby girl!! You know I'm in your corner, Sandy! I had to slap my hand because I'm just now reading this!
xoxoxo,
Michele
Keisha
you are so right. its exhausting too. i'm getting there i also need to stop getting so frustrated in the process.
Darius
Thanks Darius, glad to have u on my side my cyber brotha!
Michele
You know I know, my big sis has my back! :) its funny cause I thought about taking this post down several times (even today) out of a bit of embarrasment for being so open/transparent.... Its what was on my heart, it was what I wrote so I guess I'll leave it. I just dont want to sound like a why (ner)
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